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Lives are for living, I live for you
Dreams are for dreaming, I dream for you
Hearts are for beating, Mine beats for you
Angels are for keeping, Can I keep you?

                              ♥
When the night comes, look at the sky.
If you see a falling star, don’t wonder why, just make a wish.
Trust me, it will come true, ’cause I did it and I found you!
 
                              ♥  
                 
Kiss me and you will see stars ….
Love me and I will give them to you.
 
                              ♥                        

They say you only fall in love once, it can’t be true.
Everytime I look at you, I fall in love all over again.
 
                              ♥                        

Set Target, Find Direction, Calculate Time

 



*Target * Direction * Time *


Today Morning, on the way to office,

I met my 4 different friends for some advise: A,B,C,D

When met Person A, he said:

A : "I want to reach station in 10mins, but i have 5mins extra, tell me what u want to discuss?"

Then, met Person B, he said:

B: "I have 10mins to reach station, but on the way we can talk, tell me what happened?"

Then,

C: "I am in hurry to reach station in 10mins, and i got late, will meet you in the evening."

Then,

D: "I am very free person, Dont have any work to do. Tell me ! We will do one thing, lets go to Tea stall and have some GhupShup there only."



Conclusion:

In acutal life too,

Be like person A, who has target in the mind, with additional time too to complete. 

Also can be like Person B who is on time with the target. Before you become Person C who is already late.

But never be like Person D, who has no target, no direction. Dont know what to with his/her life and has ample of time to do only Timepass in life.


Always : Set Target, Find Direction, Calculate Time !


*लक्ष्य * दिशा * समय *


आज सुबह, ऑफिस जाते समय,

मैंने अपने चार अलग-अलग दोस्तों से कुछ सलाह लेने के लिए मुलाकात की: A, B, C, D

जब मैं व्यक्ति A से मिला, उन्होंने कहा:

A: "मुझे 10 मिनट में स्टेशन पहुंचना है, लेकिन मेरे पास 5 मिनट अतिरिक्त हैं, बताओ तुम्हें क्या चर्चा करनी है?"

फिर, मैं व्यक्ति B से मिला, उन्होंने कहा:

B: "मुझे स्टेशन पहुंचने में 10 मिनट हैं, लेकिन रास्ते में हम बात कर सकते हैं, बताओ क्या हुआ?"

फिर,

C: "मुझे 10 मिनट में स्टेशन पहुंचना है, और मुझे देर हो गई है, शाम को मिलते हैं।"

फिर,

D: "मैं बहुत फ्री हूं, मेरे पास कोई काम नहीं है। बताओ! हम एक काम करते हैं, चाय की दुकान पर चलते हैं और वहीं पर थोड़ी गपशप करते हैं।"


निष्कर्ष:

वास्तविक जीवन में भी,

व्यक्ति A की तरह बनो, जिसके पास लक्ष्य है और इसे पूरा करने के लिए अतिरिक्त समय भी है।

व्यक्ति B की तरह भी बन सकते हो, जो समय पर है और लक्ष्य के साथ है। 

लेकिन व्यक्ति C बनने से पहले, जो पहले से ही देर कर चुका है।

पर कभी भी व्यक्ति D की तरह न बनो, जिसके पास कोई लक्ष्य नहीं है, कोई दिशा नहीं है। जो नहीं जानता कि उसे अपनी जिंदगी में क्या करना है और उसके पास केवल समय बर्बाद करने के लिए समय है।


हमेशा: लक्ष्य निर्धारित करें, दिशा खोजें, समय का आकलन करें!

Very simple trick to find day of any date of the year.

Below shown is the very simple calculation to find day for any given date from the year 1900 to 2100.
Follow the instruction given in the image one with an example shown in the image 2.
Try it👍. Useful for those students giving competitive exams of Maths.

Image 1 - Trick & Formula

To find day of any date of the year.










Image 2 - Example with Try it by Yourself.

To find day of any date of the year example.



Purushottam Maas or Adhik Maas

Adhik Maas

Purushottam Maas or Adhik Maas is an extra month in the Hindu calendar that is inserted to keep the lunar and solar calendars aligned. Purushottam is an epithet of Vishnu, to whom the month is dedicated.

Generally, we know that there are 12 months in a Calendar year. Hindu calendar also has 12 months in a year, but each month is not of 30 or 31 days as we see in English Calendar.

This differentiation is because Hindu Calendar follow Moon’s Movement whereas English Calendar is made based on Sun’s Movement.

So as per Moon calendar, a month is exactly 29 days 10 hours and 48 minutes to sometimes 29 days 12 hours 44 minutes.

On an average a month stays for 29.5 days. 29.5 days multiplied by 12 months gives us the total days as 354 days.

The difference then between Lunar Calendar 354 days and Solar Calendar 365 days and 6 hours is 11 days 6 hours.

That difference must be corrected. Every third year this shortfall gets corrected as an extra month and that is called as Adhika Maasam.

Adhika Maasam comes in four combinations not exceeding three years.

1. 2 years and 4 months

2. 2 years and 9 months

3. 2 years and 10 months

4. 2 years and 11 months

Adhik Maas (2001–2050) with Month & Cycle Gap

Year Dates Adhik Maas (Hindu Month) Gap from Previous
2001 18 May – 16 June Jyeshtha Adhik Maas
2004 7 June – 5 July Ashadha Adhik Maas ~3 years
2007 26 March – 24 April Chaitra Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 9 months
2009 18 Aug – 16 Sept Bhadrapada Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 5 months
2012 18 July – 16 Aug Shravana Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2015 17 June – 16 July Ashadha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 11 months
2018 16 May – 13 June Jyeshtha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 11 months
2020 17 Sept – 16 Oct Ashwin Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 4 months
2023 18 July – 16 Aug Shravana Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 9 months
2026 17 May – 15 June Jyeshtha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2029 4 May – 2 June Chaitra Adhik Maas ~3 years
2031 24 Aug – 21 Sept Bhadrapada Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 3 months
2034 12 July – 10 Aug Ashadha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2037 1 June – 30 June Jyeshtha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2039 20 Sept – 19 Oct Ashwin Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 3 months
2042 9 Aug – 7 Sept Shravana Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2045 29 June – 28 July Jyeshtha Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2048 18 May – 16 June Chaitra Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 10 months
2050 7 Sept – 5 Oct Bhadrapada Adhik Maas ~2 yrs 3 months

Note: The gap between Adhik Maas varies between ~2 years 3 months to ~3 years based on Panchang calculations and solar transitions (Sankranti).


FAQs on Purushottam Maas or Adhik Maas (From Panchang-Style Guides)


1. What is Adhik Maas?
Adhik Maas is an extra lunar month added to the Hindu calendar to balance the difference between solar and lunar years.

2. Why does Adhik Maas occur?
Because the lunar year is ~11 days shorter, the gap accumulates and becomes one full month in ~3 years, so an extra month is added.

3. How often does Adhik Maas come?
It occurs approximately every 32–33 months (2 years 8–9 months).

4. How is Adhik Maas calculated in Panchang?
It is declared when:
No Sankranti (Sun changing zodiac sign) occurs in a lunar month.

5. Is Adhik Maas good or bad?
Spiritually: Very auspicious (Purushottam Maas)
Socially: Avoided for marriages & major events

6. Why is it called Purushottam Maas?
It is dedicated to Lord Vishnu (Purushottam) and considered highly sacred.

7. Can Adhik Maas come twice in a year?
Very rare, but possible due to complex lunar cycles.

8. Why dates change every time?
Because it depends on:
Moon cycle
Sun transit (Rashi change)
Panchang calculations




Tappers & Listeners Syndrome

Tappers & Listeners Syndrome - BlueIcyMind


Message with Learning for Life !!!

In 1990, a psychology student at Stanford University, conducted an interesting experiment. It was referred to as the "Tappers & Listeners" experiment. The rest of the world first heard of it when the authors Chip and Dan Heath started talking about in public.

For her PhD dissertation, Elizabeth Newton invited her peers in college to participate in the study. Each student was assigned one of two roles: 'Tapper' or 'Listener'. The tappers were given a list of twenty-five popular tunes, such as "Happy Birthday to you" and "Jingle Bells". They had to tap out the tune with their fingers on a table, and the listeners had to guess the song. As you might have guessed, this was not an easy task at all. Of the hundred and twenty times a tune was tapped, the listener could guess the tune correctly only thrice. That's a success rate of about 2.5%.

But here's the interesting bit. Before the tappers began to tap the tune, Elizabeth asked them to predict the probability of the listeners being able to guess the song correctly. The tappers predicted a 50% chance that they would be able to get the listeners to guess the tune correctly.
So while they thought that they would be able to get the listeners to guess correctly one out of two times, the reality was that listeners could guess the tune only once in forty attempts. How come?

Well, here's what was happening. As the tapper taps the tune, he can hear the song playing in his head His fingers seem to be tapping the tune in perfect sync with what's playing in his head. And he just can't understand what the listener is not able to pick up such a simple tune!
And what about the listener? Well, she doesn't have the tune playing in her head, without which, she has no idea what's happening. She tries as hard as can to make sense of the bizarre Morse-code like tapping that she hears. Alas, to no avail. This results in utter frustration.

As leaders, we often fall into the tapper's trap! We give instructions which seem very clear in our heads but our colleagues may have no idea what we want them to do. Has it happened to you that you called a young trainee to do some work, and when she got back the next day - having slogged all night to finish the task - you were disappointed? She hadn't quiet done what you were looking for. You probably felt a bit frustrated too, that she 'didn't quiet get it.'
The next time that happens, do remember that the problem is with the tapper - not the listener. Because you knew what you wanted to get done, you assumed it was clear to the young trainee too. That is seldom the case.

The next time you are communicating with a colleague, think about the "Tappers & Listeners" experiment. And remember, what's obvious to you may not be so to the other person. When the listener says he doesn't get it, that's not a signal to get irritated. It's probably telling you to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and try and be more explicit. Don't assume that knowledge levels are the same.

One more thing,
Tapping harder or Tapping repeatedly won't make it any easier for the Listener!

Keep Smiling
:-) :-)

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